Table of Contents

Introduction                                                                                        3

Initial Tips for Dealing with Bedwetting in Your Household          5

Behavior Modification                                                                        13

Medication                                                                                           18

Dealing with Your Pediatrician                                                          21

Bedwetting Devices and Tools                                                          30

Bedwetting Advice that Has Worked for Other Parents                36

Pre-teens, Teenagers, and Bedwetting                                             39

Some Final Tips                                                                                     40

Conclusion                                                                                              55

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INTRODUCTION

When bed-wetting becomes a problem in your home, what do you do? Often times when a child is wetting his or her bed, the reason is due either to an undiagnosed medical condition or due to psychological effects.  As a parent, you will want to find out what is happening with your child so that you can stop bedwetting.

Unfortunately, there are things that prevent many parents from trying to determine what causes their child’s bedwetting.

Some of the things that stop parents from helping their children include:

  • Shame (parents worry that a child’s bedwetting will reflect badly on them while children may be reluctant to speak with a pediatrician about a problem that is embarrassing for them).
  • Misconceptions about bedwetting
  • Time (some parents may be reluctant to take the time to help a child, assuming that bedwetting is a normal childhood ailment and will be resolved by itself)
  • Anger (parents may feel frustrated or angry with the problem and this may make them think of the problem as unimportant)

Thanks to “101 Tips to Stop Your Child’s Bedwetting Forever”, though, you will have the tools and knowledge to help your child overcome bedwetting.  Thanks to the fact that the book is organized into tips, you can easily read the book a tip or two at a time, in your spare time, and try several ideas that may be effective in stopping bedwetting.  Plus, in this ebook, you will be given the facts about bedwetting and the latest research and information you need to make educated choices that can help your child stop wetting the bed.

Before we start to consider some of the things that can be done to stop bedwetting in its tracks, we need to discuss the very idea of bedwetting.  Bedwetting occurs at night, and often in children who have no trouble or little trouble controlling their bladder during the day. This means that for these children, bedwetting makes bedtime a terrible time.  Rather than being a time of stories and rest, bedtime becomes a time of conflict and stress for both parent and child.

Bedwetting is not a rare problem. Experts think that five to seven million children in this country wet the bed at least occasionally. The older children get, the less likely they are to wet the bed, as children outgrow the problem at a rate of roughly 15% per year.  However, this means that 1% of older teenagers and 20% of children between the ages of six and five will still wet their bed regularly.

Bedwetting creates stress for the entire family. Parents may be frustrated and fatigued by the washing of sheets, drying of mattresses, and reassurances that follow each incident of bedwetting.

The medical term for bedwetting is Enuresis and it is a serious subject for medical research. Researchers have found that a few basic causes of bedwetting seem to be the culprit for most sufferers of Enuresis.  Among medical causes, ailments such as urinary tract infections, allergies, diabetes, cell anemia, and sleep disorders are often the culprit.

Since bedwetting is often the first sign of these problems, it is a good idea to get your child checked out for these conditions.  In addition, researchers have found that psychological reasons such as stress, upset, and trauma often contribute to bedwetting.

Children who wet the bed for any reason often suffer needlessly, and this suffering is the best reason to get your child help for Enuresis.  Children who wet the bed often suffer from low self-esteem, withdrawal, stress, fear, and other problems.  These children may suffer from sleeplessness because they fear or are embarrassed by what happens when they sleep.

A child with Enuresis is often teased by others and may feel dirty by the smell of urine about them.  The child may even avoid others out of fear of ridicule.  At the very least, fun childhood activities such as camp, sleepovers, and camping may be made into traumatic rather than happy events for the bedwetting child.

Many parents wonder whether they should seek help for bedwetting.  After all, despite the problems of bedwetting, many doctors still recommend patience and time as the best way to resolve bedwetting, as many children overcome the problem with no extra help.

Of course, many children do not mean all children, and telling an anxious child that he or she will wake up dry “someday” is not terribly reassuring for anyone.

In general, there are a few signs that you should seek help for bedwetting in child:

Your child asks for help. If your child thinks that bedwetting is enough of a problem that they need help with it, then bedwetting is serious enough to demand some sort of remedy. Period.

Your child has suddenly developed a problem after having no problems staying dry before. Often, this is a sign of some problem and should be investigated.

Your child acts out or has problems with others (teasing or lack of friends) as a result of bedwetting.

Your child avoids normal activities that they like (camping, going out) because of bedwetting.

Child is bedwetting regularly after eight years old and the problem is causing distress.

Bedwetting is causing problems in the household.

If any of the following apply, then consider the following 101 tips – you are sure to find solutions to try for you and your child!

Initial Tips for Dealing with Bedwetting in Your Household

There are some tips you will want to adopt right away in order to deal with bedwetting in your household:

Tip #1: Work on Sensitivity

One of the biggest impacts of bedwetting on your child is an emotional one, so you should work on making sure that your household is sensitive to your child’s situation.  No one at home should tease your child or make them feel terrible about their bedwetting.  The more teased a child is about bedwetting, the more difficult it will be for the child to overcome the problem.

The older a child is, the more ashamed they may be of wetting the bed, and the more important it will be to stay level-headed and calm to prevent shaming the child.  Shaming will only result in trauma and may even make bedwetting worse.

Tip #2: Watch your own sensitivity levels.

It is not just siblings and other children that need to be considered.  Parents often inadvertently are insensitive to their child’s bedwetting.  They are frustrated by the laundry that must be done and is sometimes even angered by having so many sheets stained or even ruined by urine.

On a rushed morning, dealing with urine-soaked sheets before dashing off to work can be frustrating, but it is crucial not to lose your temper.  Even if you manage to be calm most of the time, one outburst about bedwetting will linger in your child’s mind and make them feel ashamed.

If you find that you have no time to deal with sheets and clean-up in the morning, strip the sheets and leave them for later.  If you are angry by the cost of bed linens, consider buying less expensive sheets in bulk for a while to reduce costs for yourself.  Keep rags and other clean up items (deodorizer and cleaner) in the child’s room for fast cleaning.

Work on reducing your stress levels when it comes to bedwetting, and you are less likely to make an unfortunate comment from pure stress.

Tip #3: Educate Yourself

Throughout this ebook, you will be able to educate yourself about the facts of bedwetting.  However, you will want to share what you have learned with others in your household.  If you have several children, you need to be aware that siblings will often tease a brother or sister who “still wets the bed.”  Letting these children know that Enuresis is a condition can help them be more sensitive towards their sibling while measures are taken to prevent bedwetting.

Tip #4: Educate your child

For the child affected by Enuresis, being told the facts about bedwetting can be a big help.  Children often hear misconceptions about bedwetting from other children.  Myths such as “only babies wet the bed” can be hurtful to your child and can make him or her feel as though there is something “wrong” with them.

Often, explaining that Enuresis is an actual condition and talking about the remedies doctors have come up for it can help persuade your child that bedwetting is curable and a common problem.  That way, your child can focus on resolving the problem rather than worry about the embarrassment they feel.

Tip # 5: Visit a Doctor

Since some bedwetting is caused by undiagnosed medical conditions such as diabetes or allergies, it makes sense to take your child to a doctor to be checked out.  If there is a doctor in your area who is known for treating children with Enuresis, so much the better.  In either case, ruling out medical problems can be a big relief.  If a medical problem is causing your child to wet the bed, coping with the problem will also generally resolve the Enuresis.

Tip #6: Evaluate

Evaluate how much of a problem bedwetting is in your family and how often it happens.  Frequent bedwetting that causes many tears and embarrassment or even arguments in your household may need more aggressive treatment than bedwetting that occurs once in a while and results in only some extra laundry.

Tip #7: Different types of bedwetting demand different approaches

Also, be sure to differentiate between primary and secondary Enuresis.  Primary Nocturnal Enuresis is almost never caused by an underlying medical problem. Secondary nocturnal Enuresis means that a child has had control of his or her bladder but has begun wetting the bed.

In these cases, it is especially important to have the child seen by a good pediatrician, as almost all cases of secondary Enuresis is caused by an underlying problem (psychological or physical) and so responds very well to treatment.

Tip #8: Make it less stressful

Once you have evaluated the bedwetting in your household, you can develop a plan of action.  Since you will be learning many tips that you can apply to your plan in the upcoming pages, your plan here is basically a contingency plan.  On a paper, write down what your child should do when he or she wets the bed.

Ideally, your child should contact you, and then you should take steps to clean up.  Share the plan with your child so that when an accident happens, your child can put the plan into action rather than being ashamed and trying to get your attention.

There are also a few things you can do to make bedwetting less stressful.  Putting special sheets on your child’s bed, for example, can make clean-up much easier.  Keeping extra sheets and blankets by your child’s room can also make clean-up much faster, especially in a busy household. Even small things you can do to make bedwetting less stressful will allow you and your child to focus on resolving the problem rather than worry about clean up.

This ebook is dedicated to finding and then providing solutions about how to best help and treat the child that wets the bed. As you continue with this ebook, you will find many additional tips for small things that can be done to help make bedwetting less stressful in your home.

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